You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#54 - Jealous About Your Partner's Past? w/ Eva Thompson

Have you ever been jealous (or extremely jealous) of your partner’s past? Perhaps you’ve ruminated on their ex’s, asked them questions about their past, or felt like you can’t compare to people they’ve dated or been...
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#53 - Comparison in Relationships

Do you tend to compare your relationship to others a lot? Does it make you feel like your relationship isn’t up to par? I’m right there with ya—comparison is something I’ve had a hard time with for most of my life....
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#52 - Leaning into Discomfort in Your Relationship w/ Robert James

In this episode, I sit down with Robert James, an OCD & anxiety coach who having spent years struggling with OCD, finally learned to overcome & now helps others to do the same. We talked all about what it...
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#51 - 6 Ways to Manage Relationship Impostor Syndrome

Do you ever worry that other people will discover that your relationship isn’t as shiny and perfect as they think it is? Or that you’ll somehow be exposed for experiencing relationship anxiety? In this episode I’m...
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#50 - How Default Survival Responses Affect Relationships w/ Amanda Armstrong

In this episode I got to sit down with Amanda Armstrong who is a neuroscience and trauma-informed anxiety & depression coach. Amanda helped share more about how to understand our and our partner’s default survival...
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#49 - Let Go of Controlling Habits in Your Relationship w/ Natalie of @anxiouslovecoach

One of the most challenging things to practice in relationships (and life) is releasing control of things that are not in our control. And one thing that is most definitely not in our control is our partner (or any...
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#48 - Behind-the-Scenes of My Life and Relationship Amidst a Transitional Time

In this solo episode I’m sharing 7 reflections that have come up (or revisited my consciousness) over the last few months since moving home from Sweden with Nate. This is me pulling the curtain back and sharing some...
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#47 - Should You Tell Your Partner About Relationship Anxiety?

Should you tell your partner about your relationship anxiety? If so, how? I’m often asked questions like: "How much should you disclose about your relationship anxiety to your partner to avoid making them feel bad or...
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#46 - Do God/The Universe Give Signs About Your Relationship?

In this week’s episode I got to sit down with a married couple who each experienced their own versions of relationship anxiety and are now married for 4+ years. Joy is a licensed marriage and family...
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#45 - Making Your Relationship Work w/ Mallory of @makemarriagework

I sat down with Mallory, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and 1/2 of @makemarriagework to talk about what it takes to make a relationship work. We cover: What skills are helpful to resolve conflicts Is...
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#44 - Will I Suffer With Relationship Anxiety/ROCD Forever? w/ Christine

Very grateful to bring you another conversation with a private coaching client of mine, Christine. These conversations are so important for me because I want to peel back the curtain of others who experience...
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#43 - 7 Ways to Reduce Perfectionism In Our Relationships

Welcome back for part 2 of this 2-part series on perfectionism in our relationships. Be sure to check out episode #42 before diving into this one! In this episode I share 7 ways to reduce perfectionism in our...
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