You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#18 - How to Make Space for Our Anxious Parts w/ Alex of @forloveweheal

In this episode, I sit down with Alex Bishop of @forloveweheal. Heā€™s a registered counsellor who helps others with a wide range of personal and relational challenges work towards a more fulfilling loving relationship...
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#17 - ā€œIā€™m not sure if Iā€™m ā€˜in loveā€™ with my partner. I just ā€˜loveā€™ themā€¦is that enough?ā€

In this episode, I address questions like: ā€œDid I fall out love with my partner?ā€ ā€œWhat if I feel love toward my partner, but donā€™t feel IN LOVE with my partner?ā€ ā€œWhat if we fall out of love in the futureā€¦then...
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#16 - Letā€™s Talk Somatics + Sex! w/ Marina, the Compassionate Somatic Coach

TW: this episode mentions sexual assault and rape. In this episode I sit down with Marina, the Compassionate Somatic Coach to talk about somatic work (working with the body) and how our body affects how we show up...
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#15 - Is Resistance Blocking You From Healing Relationship Anxiety/ROCD? w/ Kiyomi LeFleur of Awaken Into Love

In this episode, I sit down with Relationship OCD expert and founder of Awaken Into Love, Kiyomi LaFleur, to talk about resistance and how it shows up in our journey to heal relationship anxiety/ROCD. We cover: three...
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#14 - ā€œIs it possible to move past ā€˜the ickā€™ in my relationship?ā€

This week I answer the question ā€œis it possible to move past ā€˜the ickā€™ in my relationship?ā€ ā€˜The ickā€™ being moments of being turned off, disgusted, or feeling like something your partner does is cringe-y. I...
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#13 - "How do I deal with negative comments from friends/family about my relationship?"

This week, I answer the question ā€œHow do I deal with negative comments from friends/family about my relationship?ā€ I cover: Who may take family and friendsā€™ comments more seriously and why Things to keep in mind when...
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#12 - Being Single While in Partnership w/ Natalie Kennedy of @anxiouslovecoach

Can you be single and in a partnership at the same time?! I sit down with Natalie Kennedy of @AnxiousLoveCoach to discuss how to embrace your independence while in a relationship. We discuss: what it means to ā€œbe...
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#11 - Instead of Everything Being 50/50 in your Relationship, Try Thisā€¦ w/ Nate Klemp

In this episode I sat down with author Nate Klemp to talk about a new approach to relationships and marriage (as seen in his book The 80/80 Marriage) and how to bring more acceptance and mindfulness to your...
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#10 - We Canā€™t Dismantle Relationship Anxiety Unless We Do THISā€¦ w/ Chelsea Horton of @healing.embodied

Chelsea Horton is a Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and the founder of Healing Embodied. She has experienced anxiety, shame, and religious trauma and has dedicated the last 9 years of her life unlearning this...
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#9 - Building Self-Awareness to Strengthen Your Relationships w/ Elizabeth Overstreet

I sit down to talk with author Elizabeth Overstreet, a trusted love and relationship strategist who keeps things real. Sheā€™s a coach and motivational speaker whoā€™s been featured ABC, CBS, NBC, The New York Times and...
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#8 - Relationships Force Us to Answer Lifeā€™s Big Questions

When youā€™re in a relationship, lifeā€™s big questions present themself: who am I? what do I believe? what do I value? how do I want life to look? what is normal? In this episode, I walk through these big life questions...
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#7 - 5 Ways to Respond When Anxiety Shows Up

When anxiety shows up, it can feel tempting to want to make it go away as fast as possible. Iā€™ve found this can actually make the anxiety stronger, and offer up 5 alternate ways to respond next time anxiety shows...
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